As the University of the Western Cape (UWC) welcomes its students for the new academic year, starting on 10 February, thousands of young adults are embarking on the exciting journey of university life.
This transformative period is filled with growth opportunities but also presents unique challenges. For parents, it’s a pivotal time to help their children prepare for success in this new chapter.
Psychologist Rone Gerber, Head of Therapeutic Services at UWC, emphasised the importance of intentional preparation during this transition.
Drawing on her expertise and insights from UNESCO’s 2022 report which notes that more than 220 million students enrol in higher education institutions globally each year, Gerber highlights practical strategies for parents to support their children.
“Starting university is about more than academics; it’s a time of personal growth, independence, and navigating complex social and emotional dynamics,” Gerber explains. “At UWC, we believe that preparation starts at home, with parents playing a key role in fostering independence and resilience in their children.”
Practical Tips for Parents:
Gerber offers the following advice to help families navigate the transition:
1. Encourage Independence Early:
The shift from the structured environment of high school to the autonomy of university life can be daunting. Parents can prepare their children by encouraging them to take charge of tasks like managing study schedules, planning budgets, and resolving personal challenges. These steps build confidence and self-reliance.
2. Stay Engaged, Not Overbearing:
As students gain independence, parents should transition from being managers to mentors. Offer guidance, but allow your child to make decisions and learn from their experiences.
3. Normalise Mental Health Conversations:
University life can be emotionally taxing, with challenges like homesickness and performance pressure. Open conversations about mental health are crucial. “Remind your child that seeking help is a strength.
4. Prepare Financially Together:
University brings financial pressures, from tuition to everyday living expenses. Gerber suggests involving children in budgeting discussions to teach financial literacy and long-term independence. UWC offers financial aid options to assist families with these challenges.
5. Promote Resilience:
Remind your child that setbacks are part of the learning process.
Gerber’s message to parents is clear: “Every student has the potential to succeed. By working together as parents, educators, and counsellors, we can provide the tools and encouragement they need to achieve their dreams.”
Students are encouraged to contact The Centre for Student Support Services for professional advice.